Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Bits and Bites....

Last Sunday we decided to go to church in Waena. This is the church that we attended faithfully the last time we lived here 6 years ago. We had not been back yet. This is due to a couple factors, one being that it takes a half hour to get there on a very windy road and all of our boys get car sick. The other factor is that we don't normally have a car on Sunday's. We share an MAF car with another family living near us and as they go to church farther away than us, we've let them have the car on Sunday's. The church we attend is within walking distance of our house. The church in Waena is quite a bit bigger so the singing was really nice. Church is supposed to begin at 9:00am but the didn't ring the "bell" (see photo of converted propane tank) until 9:25... Ahhh, rubber time. They asked us to introduce ourselves following the service, inbetween intense discussion regarding the plans for Christmas. I don't think anyone remembered us. Of course, at that time I had long hair and was very pregnant with our son Marc. It was neat to worship with these folks, and we hope to do it again more regularly. With the aid of travel pills...
Ice is sick again. I went to see her today and she is in a lot of pain and not eating properly (she's not taking her stomache pills as she should) and so is getting very skinny. I'm at my wits end. As it turned out, she hadn't been taking her antibiotics properly. I feel like throwing up my hands, but I can't do that. I think I may have to take her to the hospital again tomorrow. Please pray for wisdom to know what to do and for Ice to be able to recover.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Brynne's 4!!


There you have it... Our "baby" has turned 4. Where has the time gone?? She was pretty proud and excited about the event! We had a little party with about 10 kids, give or take... Most from her preschool class. Including one boy so that Marc would have a buddy to play with. And they did, completely ignoring the girls... Brynne is on the photo with her best friend "E". They simply love to play together and wail and make a rather loud fuss when it is time to part ways.
In other news, Ritha has malaria. She had a few days off school due to Idul Fitri, the M*slim holiday celebrating the end of the fasting time. So she came in on Tuesday and worked but towards the end of the day told me that she was feeling like she had a fever and her bones hurt so I immediately made up a blood slide which I brought to the apotik (pharmacy) later that evening. The results were positive. As she has symptoms we treated as though the lab results were correct. This pharmacy has an accuracy rate of about 50%.... There is a better slide reader but she only works in the afternoons for a couple hours and never on holidays. Ritha is having a bit of a rough time as of late. Her mother is continually bothering her. She keeps accusing Ritha of poisoning her brother and sister and not treating them well etc.... The brother and sister have no desire to leave Ritha's house and go live with their mother, who has never taken care of them. She lives with another family in a house barely larger than our shed with about 10 people. Then the biological mother of Ritha's older daughter has been threatening to come and take her back. They live in another city far away and are quite wealthy. She gave up her daughter at birth and all legal documentation has Ritha's name on it. But that's not enough from a legal standpoint. Ritha is very very sad about this. She considers the girl her own daughter as she has cared for her for over 10 years now. Please pray for Ritha as she deals with these difficult issues.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Bits and Bites....



Today we, MAF Sentani, celebrated 1 year of accident-free flying. We know that this is a gift from God and for that gift we are thankful. So we had a lunch with all the national workers and pilots/mechanics/teachers etc... and their spouses. After a couple short speeches, we dove into the food. It was a sea of light blue with dark blue. All MAF national workers just got new uniforms. I feel very bad for them because they are all polyester... sweat-inducing stuff... Thankfully, Hugo can wear his own "uniform" which is 100% cotton...
There's Mikah playing the saxophone. She's able to make notes so she's off to a good start!
Marc and Brynne like to listen to audio books on my Mp4 player...
*Ice is sick again. I started her on meds right away so we nipped things in the bud a bit and the pain isn't so bad as it was a couple weeks ago. However, the expat doctor here feels that there is a good possibility that there is something else besides PID going on. So I've been trying to track down an OBGYN for her to see.... I feel a sense of helplessness and hopelessness. I just wish I could take her to a doctor and know that she would get good care and that they would take the time to get an accurate diagnosis. But the system here is terrible. There are too few doctors and too many patients meaning no one patient gets much attention. Never mind that the education for doctors in this country is much lower than in the West.

Saturday, September 12, 2009

Bits and Bites....

Poor Ritha. She’s in her second year of studies to become a teacher of the Protestant Religion (Maybe there’s a better way of translating her course name but that’s the literal translation). She has the second highest GPA of the entire class. The majority of her teachers hail from Ambon. There are also a lot of students in the class also from Ambon. The one person with a higher GPA than Ritha is a “straight-haired” woman from Western Indonesia. Recently Ritha had to write a paper and she tried her best not to get too good a mark, but alas, she got an “A”. What that means for Ritha is that she has to prove to her teachers where she got her information from to achieve this stellar grade. The other woman has to do this as well, but not to the extent that Ritha does. Ritha really feels that the teachers think she is cheating because how can a Papuan woman get better grades than people from Ambon or other islands??? Um... maybe cause she’s just smart? Another factor is that Ritha has access to our computer and our neighbour’s computer and can use the internet. The other student’s most likely need to go to internet cafes where they have to pay and the internet is slow. Having unlimited time allows one to do a lot more research. She’s offered to bring her teachers to our house to prove this but they have yet to take her up on her offer... I say, “Bring em on!”
It is difficult here to find clothing of a decent quality. There’s a lot of cotton, but it is thick and sweat-inducing and often ill-fitting. However, the other day I stumbled upon a new brand of t-shirt that is made with nice thin, stretchable cotton and is designed in a flattering shape. The name brand? Jail Body Inside. I kid you not....
The other day Ice came to work but could not enter the gate because our yard guy’s brother misunderstood me when I asked him NOT to lock the gate when he left... I told Ice that next time that happens she should just go to their house and ask them to unlock the gate. But Ibu, she says, they live right beside the parents of the girl that was killed. So what, I respond. Well, the mom likes to sit outside there and she has said that as long as she’s alive, Pak Mitre’s (Ice’s dad) daughters will not have children. So I’m scared of her... You should know that the only reason this woman is focussing on Ice’s dad is because he decided to “pegang the masalah”. Literally translated this means, “to hold the problem”. It was he that instigated discussions regarding payment and it was he that organized the ultimate exchange of pigs, money and nokens (weaved bags). He and his children did not have any involvement in the actual murder of the girl. But that is all meaningless to the family of the dead girl. It still leaves me feeling completely baffled....
I have begun painting our house. This lovely house we live in was built just before our arrival 2 years ago and according to our organizations standards, was painted a stark white inside and out and unfortunately with a low quality water-based paint. Local water based paints come off when you rub the wall with a wet cloth especially if there’s a little vinegar on it. So instead of cleaning the walls, you are actually removing the paint. I’m a little sick of dirty walls so I’ve decided it’s time to paint in spite of the fact that in three short months we are due to head to Canada for home assignment. I figure that it will be nice to return to a “freshly” painted house. The kids are super excited at the prospect of not having dirty-white bedroom walls anymore! Thankfully, there’s a new shop in town that sells paint of a calibre similar to what one would find in Canada. If I purchase 250,000 rupiahs worth of paint, I receive 5 free packages of Supermie (ramen noodles – all the rage here)! If I purchase lots of paint, I get a free nylon tote bag to carry it all in! They are really pushing this stuff here.... The only problem is that sometimes they run out of certain tints and they don't order ahead of time.... And everything comes here by boat from Jakarta...

Tuesday, September 08, 2009

More "fun"...

Things have not slowed down much... I've been busy getting a person to come to test Ice and hubby for HIV. That was a bit of a kafaful. They first said they would come Monday morning and then no, it couldn't happen until Tuesday and then later someone else called and said could it happen in the afternoon that day (Monday)? I foolishly said,"Sure." Went to find Ice and she was gone! I asked some people where she was and they couldn't find her either. One of the guys had on a familiar looking pair of runners... Ones that you can't buy here... Ones that look rather identical to a pair stolen from my neighbour... I asked him where he got the shoes and he claimed that a friend had given them... right... Anyways, the people came and no Ice... So I made a new appointment for this morning. A woman came and again, I had to go get Ice, who was sound asleep while her hubby was hand washing the laundry... Anyways, the woman got their info and proceeded to attempt to draw blood. She tried both of them on both arms and couldn't draw any... She depressed and drew the syringes multiple times while they were inside the arms of Ice and hubby. Then, upon being unsuccessful at drawing blood, proceeded to rinse the syringes in tap water... Using the same water for both syringes... I called a nurse friend who came and had no trouble after using a tourniquet. Anyways, apparently this is a government sponsored program and you don't need to pay for anything. That's good news. Plus they both have to go to the hospital in Abe together to get the results and receive any necessary counselling. This is good information to have!
Tomorrow I have a meeting at the private Catholic hospital in Waena regarding setting up a hearing clinic there. I hope they are interested! At this moment there is no where to get ones hearing tested! I don't think there is anywhere on the entire island! But you can get a real fancy lazy-boy type chair that will give you a massage!
*BTW, Ice is not her full name and there are hundreds of women with the same name here...

Thursday, September 03, 2009

Bits and Bites....

It's been a crazy week!
Hugo returned safely on Wednesday morning after virtually circumnavigating Indonesia. He had to fly from Tarakan to Balikpapan where he changed planes, from there he flew to Surabaya where he had a lengthy wait and again changed planes. From there he flew to Makasar where he changed planes once more and then flew to Sentani arriving at 6:00 am. He had a productive time in Kalimantan and even took work back with him. He'll probably need to go back there sometime early on in our second term.
Today I was able to pick up Ice from the hospital. Apparently the cist is gone and there is no need to operate. They sent her home with a weeks worth of 2 different kinds of antibiotics. I had to do some convincing to get her released. She was told last night by the doctor that she could go home but for some reason someone wrote on her chart that she needed to see the doctor first today. I told the nurses in no uncertain terms that I was not coming back, I was taking her then! So they called the doctor and he said,"Of course she can go home!" Then there was the whole, we have to write up the bill and then bring it to the front where they enter it into the computer, yes at this hospital there is a computer system, and then I could pay. Once I'd paid I had to go back to the nurses and show them the receipt and they did something with it and then gave it back to me again. Anyways, the whole process was a bit trying and again another cross-cultural experience that left me out over $100 again... I told Ice that she really really needs to get the government insurance for poor people. She totally qualifies. But someone told them that this hospital doesn't accept it but the four different people I spoke with assured me that they do accept it.... Ugghh.... Well, now there is an expat doctor in town and she's okay with giving advice if needed... so glad...
In the meantime, I was without a husband or a helper (Ritha is gone back to school) which left me feeling a little over-extended... Well, at least I have my husband again. I asked Ice's mom if she could help me out on Tuesday and Thursday next week. She's happy to make a little money.
In between all this, Brynnie started preschool on Tuesday. She was a little shy, but excited and had trouble sitting still... So not her brother...

This is the hangar in Tarakan, Kalimantan and the aircraft that Hugo was working on.